My life is falling apart
For the past 4 years I have been in a very emotionally turbulent relationship. I have been lied to and cheated on. I have tried to forgive but can't seem to get past the anger and pain. I have been involved in martial counseling and that didn't seem to resolve anything. I feel guilty because if the marriage doesn't work that I have let everyone down. I am trying to live a Christian life but it is so hard when this black cloud over me won't go away. My mom past away in June and my husband just announced he is moving out. I have a mediocur paying job and we just bought a expensive house last November. I have no idea how I am going to make ends meet with three kids. I believe the only reason we are still married is because of the finances. But the last month I have been withdrawn from my relationship with my husband and now he is moving out. I have tried so many times to ask God what he wants me to do. How I can be a better person and handle all of this? I just don't seem to get any answers. I am just hanging on by a thread.Prayers And Encourgements
Sometimes we need others to listen and those who know what we're going through. The same is happening to me, I just don't have the three kids.
I've been lied to and there have been affairs. I'm disabled. Don't know how the bills are getting paid. Ya know though, one thing I do know that I'm doing my part as God shows me and letting God work out what's best for me.
I can understand as I was divorced before when my son was a baby. If there isn't any abuse and you can stick it out, I feel strongly for the kids.
Please write back with more, I'm here to listen
I've been lied to and there have been affairs. I'm disabled. Don't know how the bills are getting paid. Ya know though, one thing I do know that I'm doing my part as God shows me and letting God work out what's best for me.
I can understand as I was divorced before when my son was a baby. If there isn't any abuse and you can stick it out, I feel strongly for the kids.
Please write back with more, I'm here to listen
Posted by Karen on 10/29/2007 @ 5:33 PM
I am praying for you. I am facing a similar dilemma. Stay and make a bad situation work - give him "just one more chance", or move on and start over with control over my own destiny no matter how scary/financially unstable that might be. I cannot tell you what to do and I cannot make things easier for you, but I will pray that things work out for you in the best possible way. It must be very difficult to have lost your Mom and not have her as a resource so I will also pray you get the support you need in this difficult time.
Posted by NJJ on 10/31/2007 @ 9:59 AM
Please remember that you have the strength inside of you to be O.K. Focus on your children and yourself and you will be alright. Live within your means, get a smaller house or a roommate. you CAN do it!!! Don't be a victim- be a survivor!!
Posted by J on 11/3/2007 @ 10:07 AM
I am a firm beliver in the power of praise. Remember that God will show you what doors to walk through. And HE will close others. So let it be by His Mighty Hand of Acts that performs the best trunaround for your future. And get connected in volenteer work at Central. There are so many possibilities with HIM.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Posted by JBC on 11/25/2007 @ 2:54 PM
I am a firm beliver in the power of praise. Remember that God will show you what doors to walk through. And HE will close others. So let it be by His Mighty Hand of Acts that performs the best trunaround for your future. And get connected in volenteer work at Central. There are so many possibilities with HIM.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Posted by JBC on 11/25/2007 @ 2:55 PM
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