Drinking alcohol and having no self-control

I am 31 years old and just realized that I have a problem with alcohol. I don't crave it and have to have it, but I can't just have one or two and be good. I drink too much at one time and then end up embarassing myself and angering others around me. Last night I had way too much to drink, I started getting aggrivated about something. I don't remember most of what I did, but I deffinately embarassed myself professionally. I woke up this morning still intoxicated, I did not have my ring on, which tells me that I was not faithfull in my heart and mind. I had to be put in my room by force. I feel like a complete idiot. I feel like I've let down all the folks that think I'm a "pretty decent guy", I've let down myself, my wife, my children, and most of all, I know I've let God down. I prayed for forgiveness for my drunkeness, and my unfaithful heart. I feel pretty bad right now. I need strength. I need to know that I can recover from this, spiritually, mentally, and professionally.